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The Christian’s Way To
Save Your Marriage

Let’s face it: marriage is a challenge!  There is no way around that.  But it is a challenge with enormous payoffs in the end. That is God’s plan.  Marriages teach us to be better Christians, if we allow it. 

Unfortunately, too many times, we take the easy way out. That has been my frustration for many years.  I have seen couple after couple end their marriage for the wrong reason.

This led me on a journey to discover what marriage was about, from a Biblical perspective, and how to use a person’s Christian faith to bring the marriage back together.

My first discovery was that modern psychology was exacerbating the problem!  While attempting to help, psychology was doing great harm to marriages. In fact, the statistics were appalling. Did you know that less than 50% of marriages that go to therapy stay together?  And only 10-20% of people in marital therapy report any improvement.

Imagine that:  you go to a doctor, and he tells you that you need surgery. But you have less than a 50/50 chance of survival. And if you do survive, only a 10 to 20% chance of improving. Who in their right mind would go through with surgery? Yet many, many couples end up in therapy each year.  And when therapy doesn’t help, they decide that the marriage must really be over.

I knew there had to be better answers. . . and there were, right there in my Christian beliefs. I just had to take those beliefs, use them in real practice, and create a practical approach that is founded in faith.

For over 17 years, I have worked to discover, practice, and perfect this approach.  Now, I am ready to offer this to you!

God has given us the tools we need to build strong marriages, to become “One Flesh.” But it takes study, discernment, and practice to bring this approach to fruition.  You can take your beliefs, faith, and relationship to God to build your relationship.  I will show you how!

What Every Christian Ought To
Know About Marriage,
And How To Save Yours

I have spent the last couple of years taking all my material, honing it down, polishing it off, and creating a format that you can use to save your own Christian marriage. All that effort is now available, for the first time, for you. But you must act now, not because the material won’t be here, but because your marriage may not.

You see, the biggest mistake most people make in the midst of a marital crisis is to wait too long.  People think that time might heal all wounds. (It may, but only if you know how to help the process along!)

I decided to make this material available to you in the simplestmost direct, andeasiest format.  I created an ebook that contains all the information you need in order to use your Christian faith to save your marriage.

SaveYourChristianMarriage_1This material is available to anyone reading this website. In fact, I am making sure you can get it with absolutely no risk to yourself or anyone else! I promise that if you use this information, and if you approach your marriage prayerfully, your marriage WILL BE SAVED!

If you are not familiar with an ebook, it is simply an “electronic book.” You download it to your computer, or PDA, or Pocket PC, or an Ebook Reader.

The advantage is that you can get the information, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the world.  No waiting for the book to arrive, no trips to try to find the information.

You only need to take action.  In fact, you can be saving your marriage in less than 10 minutes, even if you are computer illiterate.

You Are About To Discover:

dotpoint9THE secret to saving your marriage, starting today.
dotpoint9God’s Plan for your marriage.
dotpoint9The Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis arises.
dotpoint9The true secrets of healthy, stable, loving marriages.
dotpoint9How your Christian beliefs and faith can transform your relationship.
dotpoint9How to assess the stage of your crisis (there are 8).
dotpoint9How to address any stage of a crisis and turn it around.
dotpoint9What to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save your
dotpoint9Why Christians should and could have a “leg-up” in dealing with problems in your marriage.
dotpoint9Why “hard work” on the relationship isn’t always the answer.
dotpoint9How marriage counseling can be dangerous to your marriage’s future.
dotpoint9Why “low mood therapy” is destined for failure and how “high mood relating“ makes the difference.
dotpoint9How to move beyond emotions and take action!
dotpoint9How to find the North Star of your relationship, and why it matters.
dotpoint9Why true intimacy is a lot closer than you think–and how to get there!
dotpoint9What the TIE Elements of Communication are, and how they can transform your communication.
dotpoint9How to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously!
What the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can transform your relationship.
dotpoint9Why arguing is a waste of time — and the amazingly simple secret to get around it.
dotpoint9How to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
Why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.
dotpoint9How to deal with problems involving sex or money — and how to bring God into those areas.
How to make radical shifts (literally, quantum leaps!) in the relationship.
dotpoint9Much, much more about how to transform your relationship, with God’s plan and help.
In short, how to have the marriage of your dreams and prayers.

You Don’t Need A Ph.D.
To Save Your Marriage!

These techniques and tools are simply and easy to use! In fact, you will beamazed on how easy it is for you to get your marriage back on track, if you know how.

The secrets of a successful marriage are universal.  I have spent the better part of 20 years discovering them, validating them, and finding Scriptural support for them. 

“What A Blessing. . .”

writes Gregor Haynes of Massachusetts. He says:

“My wife of 25 years announced a month ago that she loved me, but was not ‘in love’ with me. She said she had to get out.

I didn’t know what to do, so I prayed. Then I decided that it was up to me to keep this marriage together.  I searched the internet and found you.

After just a week of using your information, I could see my wife begin to change before my eyes. We have a long way to go, but I know we will make it. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU!”

“I Was Doing
Everything Wrong. . .”

writes Becky Raeford of Georgia. She says:

When my husband told me he was not happy, I was so upset, I could hardly think straight. As it turns out, I did everything wrong.  Your list of the Top 5  things I should not do in the middle of a marriage crisis, I did all 5!

My husband was moving further and further away!  He was packing his bags to move out when a friend sent me to your site. It must have been an angel, because you gave me everything I needed to stop the process.

I am so excited that we are getting back on course!  In fact, I think the marriage crisis may end up being the best thing that ever happened to us.  Our relationship is finally genuine, and is under God’s leadership.”

Will YOUR Marriage Be
The Next To Change. . . For The Better?

It can, but it will take your action!  I often hear from people who tell me that they have been praying and praying to God for something to change in their marriage, but nothing gets better.

Do you remember the story of the man at the well of Bethesda (John 5)? I love the story because this poor man had been laying beside a healing pool, but is unable to be healed because he can’t get in the water.  Jesus asks: “do you want to be healed?”  Part of what is behind this question is how desperate is the man for healing?  Does he just say the words or does he take action?

It is time for you to ask the question:  do you want your marriage healed? Praying is the beginning point. Taking action is the next. Now is the time to take action.

arrow33“I am ready to save my marriage. Show me how.”arrow34

Another day can pass without action, but those days quickly add up to weeks, months, then years.  Are you ready to make a change?

I Want To Partner Directly With You To
Save Your Marriage

But you have to take the first step. I will give you the information you need, I willpray for you, and I will even help you directly.  The only thing I cannot do is get you to take action.

My commitment is to save as many marriages as I can. That is my calling.  But long ago, I realized that saving marriages happens one marriage at a time.  Now is the time for your marriage. If we work together, you will have fulfilled your commitment to God, and I will be fulfilling my ministry with God.

“We Were A House Divided”

writes R. Johnson of Texas.  He says:

“I don’t know that our marriage ever really got started.  We struggled for years, constantly arguingand ‘bashing our heads against the wall’ whenever we tried to make a decision.

My idea of marriage was not what we were living. But I didn’t know any other way! Dr. Baucom, you showed me the way!

Frankly, I am amazed that things turned around so quickly.  My wife loves my new approach, and I love her new approach.  I think we both finally know what love is, and more importantly, how to show it.

God has truly blessed us through your information!  Keep up the good work.”

Are you ready to have a different marriage?  Are you ready to take the pieces God has given you and put them together in ways that God would want?  God does not want division and pain, but love and support in your family. If you are ready for that, carefully read the next section!

I Can Help You Right Now!
If You Take Action, You Can Be
Saving Your Marriage In The Next 10 Minutes

My ebook is now available to you!  But not only am I making my ebook available to you, I am also providing some crucial reports that will multiply the effectiveness of the material.SaveYourChristianMarriage_2

First, I will provide you with my ebook, Save Your Christian Marriage.  This ebook is the only book that contains the information I am going to share with you.  The secrets and strategies are not found anywhere else.  I have been studying, testing, and developing them for years.  Now, they are laid out for you in clear, concise writing.

This is not a “fluff” book.  The chapters are short, too-the-point, and easy-to-read.  And the ideas are instantly applicable. You can start applying the ideas as soon as you read them!

But this is just the start of the information you will receive.  I am also providing you with several reports that will make you even more effective in saving your marriage. Many people have told me that any one of the resources has saved their marriage, so I am providing these additional supports.

These reports include:report0202

dotpoint60The Top 5 Things NOT To Do In A Marriage Crisis. Let’s face it: in the midst of a crisis, sometimes it is hard to know what to do, and what not to do. I will tell you the 5 biggest mistakes people make, so that you canavoid them.

dotpoint60The Quick-Start Guide To Saving Your Marriage. This guide will let you assess the crisis. You see, there are 8 distinct stages of a crisis, from the “we have a problem” point to the “marriage dissolved” point. And each stage requires a different intervention strategy.  The wrong strategy at the wrong time, and your marriage will continue to erode.  I will help you assessand form a strategy at each stage.

dotpoint60Understanding Anger & Resentment. This report has been praised by many people as “revolutionary,” “transformational,” and “powerful” in dealing with these two destructive emotions. I will give you the latest research and theories about how to contain and rid yourself and your spouse of these toxic emotions.  What you will learn is likely to dispel all the misinformation you have heard, especially from psychology. Simply put, we have “missed the boat” on these emotions, and I am trying to correct this.

dotpoint603 Simple Secrets To A Successful Marriage. This report has been tested in workshop after workshop. I lay out 3 points that can revolutionize and transform any relationship.  Some people have seen this as the “icing on the cake,” what to do when your relationship is better.  But others have used these three ideas to save the relationship.

arrow4Finally, we will partner together, with me directly assisting you!  I will be bringing my almost 20 years of experience tens of thousands of couples  save their marriage to you through an email consultation.  Understand, I will be dealing with you directly. No assistant will be answering you.  I will give you a special email address and a way to ask me whatever you need in order to take the information and apply it to your unique situation.

You will also know that I will add you to my prayer list.  Whenever I discover someone’s marriage is in trouble, I add them to my prayer time.  There really will besomeone caring about what happens with your marriage, and someone doing what I can to help you turn your situation around. And remember, God is always pulling for you and your marriage!

“I am ready to get started saving my marriage! Show me how!”

This Is A Method That Is Helping
Tens Of Thousands Of Couples To
Turn Their Marriage Around. . .
And It Works With Only ONE Trying!

I know what you are thinking right now:  “this sounds great, but my spouse really:

  • “isn’t interested in working on this.”
  • “doesn’t think it can be saved.”
  • “won’t look at any self-help stuff.”
  • “is tired of all my books on relationships.”
  • “doesn’t love me anymore.”

I’ve heard it all before! In fact, you must understand that the majority of people come to me without a spouse’s support.  I have developed strategies that work even if only you and God want your marriage to work (I guarantee that God is pulling for your marriage).

You see, I have been providing guidance to couples for years, in a number of settings. I have sat with them in the therapy office.  I have seen them in Sunday School classes, marriage retreats, premarital counseling, special events, and offering help over the phone to people around the world.

I know that marriages can be saved. And I know that marriages can be saved, even if it has to start with only one person wanting to save it. YOU can be that person.

“My Spouse Had Given Up”

writes Angie T. of Oregon. She says:

“I had almost thrown in the towel, too. But it just seemed to go against all my beliefs.  I couldn’t find any peace about ending the marriage.

I knew it would only be me working on the marriage, but I figured that the worst that happened was I would be able to say ‘I did all I could’

Instead, I was able to get the marriage restarted. Suddenly, my husband started joining me! I thought your claims of ‘it only taking one’ were nuts. You made a believer out of me!“